Everywhere I go, it seems there's a huge Okie diaspora

I think I'm still Team Denver, but as everything gets harder and more prohibitively expensive here, I do sometimes dabble with the idea of going back to the 'Homa once it's ready for urban development. OKC is doing impressive stuff but I don't know if the grass is greener or projects are truly easier. If it's not costs, then it's the market, or supply issues, or permitting backlogs, or something else. I doubt there's anywhere that creative, equitable, quality urban development is "easy." Maybe Texas (a thought that kills my inner Okie)?
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Originally Posted by Brainpathology
Excuse me for hitting your nerve. I forgot that a lot of people in places like Denver need their safe spaces and musing about my own moments of shame that I'm working with that extra comma/vacation and wonder if "I" am the whore triggers people with molecularly thin skin.
I'm happy for you that literally being sued/the impetus for a teacher being sued if my upcoming children make others uncomfortable and they speak about their "two daddies" in 3rd grade is local politics that you're annoyed at talking about. Lovely that that is so far out of your experience through either being in your blue bubble, or being straight, or childless that you don't have to worry about it and gay parents' worries like mine make me a - what did you say? - a "nerd who lacks social skills, decency, and common sense?" How very typically (Denver's brand of mostly fake) compassionate of you.
One good side effect of this board is that I can see the silver lining of NOT returning if I don't so thanks for that at least.
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You have sympathies for the way your family has been targeted politically in Florida, as I know what it's like to be human collateral damage. I know I look like an anonymous figment of the internet, but I'm actually a human who left Southern Oklahoma for similar reasons. That doesn't mean you will find me denigrating the place, bullying others, calling them cruel and/or wh*res, or saying they need a safe space when they push back against aimless barking.
I'm not really sure what your point is other than being a barking dog. I guess we hear you, and I'm sorry I guess you don't like Denver, but you don't like Florida either, and we also don't like Cleveland, or safe spaces whatever that was supposed to mean, so I guess it all sucks? I apologize for wrapping you up with everyone else sht+alking less sophisticated places on this board, but it just gets old. It's probably half the posts anyone's made on here.
One thing I learned once I got my first abusive work environment under my belt is you can't just say everyone else is the problem. Everyone else can and will be a problem, but you still have to meet the people where they're at, and learn to work with people. So I moved to Colorado where I have found people to be amazing. It turns out I was swimming against the current the whole time, and Denver has been very good for my professional, personal, and creative life.
My last point, after which I'll let this go, is it sounds like you've had many of the same intellectual epiphanies that I have had toward blue bubble virtue signaling baloney. Just today the most profound defense of the trans community came from the Republican governor of Utah, who won by being further-right than Huntsman. I looked up Spencer Cox's record, and to my surprise he's been saying profoundly kind and thoughtful things for years. We all need to stop assuming someone is with us or against us based on blue team / red team.
I like the intellectual and thoughtful language used in your posts, and I sympathize and empathize with your experience. Let's just stop denigrating whole states full of good people, places, and experiences. I think we've gotten to this horrific state of affairs by writing off large swaths of America as heathens, then we act surprised when people we've called heathens begin to act like heathens. You can denigrate me all you want, but you hinder your cause when you go after places that don't deserve it.
The funny thing about globalism and connectivity is that Miami and Ft Lauderdale are probably more connected to Denver, Chicago, NY etc than they are to Lakeland, FL or Ft Pierce, FL. That's why and how cruelty has become overrepresented in most state legislatures today.