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Originally Posted by jedikermit
I think there's a difference between being superficially "nice" and genuinely "friendly." I see a lot of people who are nice around here. I don't know about friendly.
Maybe I'm just an ass.
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I've thought about this same thing. It seems like whenever I go anywhere out of state, the people I encounter are extremely friendly. Houston, Upstate New York, and Portland, I can think of specific instances where complete strangers have approached me in a nonweird, friendly way that I've never come across once in all my years in Utah. So yeah, people are nice, but not friendly. I wouldn't say all the niceness is superficial though. I think for the most part there are genuine desires to reach out and make people feel good about themselves, but many people have just the most rudimentary of social skills, especially when interacting with nonmormons. In general though, I prefer our people to people in places like southern California. I've been there so many times and not only haven't been treated kindly, but people have been downright mean.