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Originally Posted by jonny24
Unpopular opinion maybe:
I don't give 🞵🞵🞵🞵 if/how much they put on the tip machine. "Asking's free", as the saying goes. They'd be dumb not to ask.
Luckily saying "No" is also, in this case literally, free. I'm happy to read the machine options and click a button or two to save 10-20%. Those who feel too shy or "pressured" to not willingly give their own money away can subsidize me 
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Honestly, I agree. I mean the third option is there as a joke always, no one clicks that unless they feel propositioned to or are hitting on the server (or super drunk, or hates their own money). The second option is there for those few restaurants that actually put in a very reasonable, 10 or 12% first option.
The first option should be the one anyone looks at as the barometer. An 18% choice at a fine dining establishment with excellent, attentive and polite service - totally OK.
18% at Joey's because the waitress is a pretty girl but barely comes by to check on you and/or forgets your order - insulting, but not worth going down to 15% for fumbling through the machine.
Any amount for takeout - yeah, I'm with the poster above... thanks for subsidizing me if you tip on those, but I would never, ever feel compelled to tip for something I walk to a counter for and grab and go and wasn't provided an inch of service for.