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Originally Posted by hipster duck
First of all, who cares? People can go to chain restaurants without other people passing judgment on them. Niwell's right in that the Toronto Life wrote this as clickbait so snobbish Torontonians would think she was some kind of "basic —" who lives at Square One and eats corporate chain food.
Second, in a way it kind of is. Second generation Afro-Caribbean Torontonians that I know (who are almost all women) don't care that much about food but care more about a venue for socializing in a big group. Cactus Club is the kind of place where 6-10 people can walk in and get a table immediately without a reservation. Most of the restaurants that serve Caribbean food are small holes in the wall, and not really the kinds of places where entire families or groups of friends go in to dine, and many of them are dry.
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I'm not by any means suggesting there's anything wrong with going to Cactus Club. Just saying, your previous assertion was that she lived in Peel to be close to her community. I don't think that lines up with what she's saying and doing in the article. I don't think the problem for her in Edmonton was a lack of connection with her ethnic community. She's defining urbanity and nightlife as 5x/wk access to Cactus Club. And then chooses a city and neighbourhood where this is difficult.
Also, I judge all 905ers who call themselves Torontonians and consider themselves cityfolk, not for living near Square One or eating chain food, but for not partaking in something basic to most of the 416: riding the rocket. If you aren't using transit locally (not just GO to get downtown) a few times a month, you're not really an urban Torontonian. This is something that the 416 has in common across classes, races and genders. There's a fundamentally different experience in the 416 where so many take transit. And it defines who you are. It's just definitely not a 905 thing. Easy test of anybody who claims to be Torontonian, ask them which subway station has the best patties. 905ers will all give you a blank stare. Every 416er will tell you their favourite.
Why bring up that point? Because really, lifestyles between any 905 suburb and most cities in Canada, beyond TMV proper, is pretty similar. It's all fairly similarly suburban. So given that, I don't think she really missed urbanity, so much as she missed her drinking buddies at the Cactus Club.