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Originally Posted by Truenorth00
It's pretty typical. A white guy will only imagine what it's like to be the cool black kid. But not every black kid is cool. And not every Asian kid is good in math. They don't see the ignorance in making fitting in contingent on stereotypes. This wouldn't be a big deal if kids in general weren't such shitheads who will use any excuse to pick on other kids.
I was one of three non-white kids in an elementary school class of 20 something kids. My wife is a halfie and she didn't enjoy her upbringing in a London, ON either.
That said, Canada is very different today than when I was growing up. And I have to remind myself of that. 30 years ago kids made fun of what was in my lunchbox. Today those same people probably pay $15 for the same thing in the food court. Tldr. Kids are shitheads. And they are bigger shits to anybody who sticks out more.
On topic. Things like this do speak to quality of life. I'm not particularly concerned about somebody making fun of what is in my lunchbox today. But as a parent, I'm not all that interested in having my kids go through that shit either. So I'll stick to the larger metros if I can help it.
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Yup, kids are shitheads. And the worst ones are the offspring of those with abhorrent views who parrot them direct from the parents.
It's funny how yesterday's ethnic lunch, is today's trendy cuisine. I'm glad that food is playing a role in helping to improve relations and minimize racial bias. Anthony Bourdain understood that when he traveled the world.
And yeah thankfully things have improved dramatically since when you and your wife attended school, or myself, even though there's still room for improvement.
Canadians play up the myth that we are so much better than the US, and in
many metrics we are, but we haven't yet reached a point where everything is "Kumbaya" with each other. For one the white nationalist movement has bubbled up to the surface from folks "just asking questions and having discussions" behind closed doors, and we still have a lot of reconciliation to be made with First Nations peoples, among other examples.
I can see why many Canadians of colour would want to live in a larger area/Metro. Not only is there much more ethnic diversity, but the culture and food scene doesn't suck
That's one gripe I won't make about Niagara. Currently at 485k, we should hit at least 700k-750k in my lifetime, who knows, maybe a lot more. I'm looking forward to the transformation, just hope higher quality and more variety of housing typologies gets built, and not SFH and townhouses that look like it might need to be knocked down in a couple of decades.