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Originally Posted by someone123
I was mostly talking about people I know or knew in NS including relatives, not internet comments, although I see echoes of the same kind of thinking from the local media and internet commenters sometimes (what was labelled a "culture of defeat" by Stephen Harper). For example when I was younger I heard that the local economy was quite bad and, really, if you were successful, you would move away. I moved for personal reasons and don't regret it, but I also have noticed that the ones who didn't move away did just fine. I think the people my age I know in Halifax have a higher living standard on average than the ones I know here (it's not even close, and I am talking about concrete things like home and car ownership or having children).
It used to be very common to hear that Halifax can't have glass buildings (heating bills too high), nice streetscaping (useless for most of the year and will be destroyed during snow clearance), or bike lanes (too much snow and ice everywhere all the time and too cold) due to climate. Tearing down heritage buildings was just accepted because, well, they're uneconomical and who would have the money to preserve them? Highrises? Transit? A stadium? Where do you think you are, Toronto?
I originally expected to find similar phenomena around Canada or other countries but, really, I have not. NS was unusually negative. In Western Canada you are much more likely to get a rose-tinted interpretation. Hopefully the norm in NS is already more balanced than it was when I lived there.
I also notice sometimes extreme cynicism and jealousy toward the "big bad city" from people in smaller towns or rural areas around NS and Atlantic Canada. I expected to see the same toxic attitude toward Toronto or Vancouver or San Francisco or wherever but I largely haven't.
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Fair enough. I can't comment as to your lived experience, but just noting from my experience that it seemed overstated.
Regarding a few points you made:
- My impression is that the "culture of defeat" was more a generalization from other parts of Canada, mostly from those who appear to get some comfort over keeping the Maritimes down a little (or in the case of federal politicians, to give them an out when they have not put in a good effort to support the Maritimes) - my perception only. It seems an attitude more derived from ignorance than actual experience, though.
- Many people have moved away for better opportunities, but that's a choice they made, not a necessity. I know many people who moved to Toronto for "better career opportunities", as many companies maintained large 'head offices' there, and were happy to have made the move. I have been to Toronto many many times for work and pleasure - and was offered an opportunity for advancement in my career several years ago, but I had to move to Toronto for it. I weighed the pros/cons and decided to stay here to enjoy the lifestyle I can have in Halifax vs the lifestyle offered by Toronto. Financially, I think that I made out better by staying due to the lower cost of living and other factors, but the real driver of my decision was that I was choosing to live where I want to live, and some 20 years later I am eternally grateful to my younger self that I made the decision that I did.
- I've never heard that nonsense about glass buildings, streetscapes, or bike lanes (except on this forum), so I can't comment to that. The Canada Permanent Building was built in 1961 as Halifax's first curtain wall structure (which was before my time), but I don't recall anybody disputing that it exists.
- The heritage building thing of course has long been a frustration of mine, but I've chalked it up to lack of appreciation and an innate sense of practicality that bluenosers seem to have in general - maybe that is negative exceptionalism? I dunno, I tend to think it's just lack of appreciation for heritage - like 'out with the old, in with the new' and let's move on. I often see this same struggle in other parts of Canada, in the media and on the skyscraper forum, so I'm thinking it's not a unique Halifax/NS thing.
- I can't comment towards "jealousy" towards the big bad city, but framing it as jealousy seems a little unusual. Disdain of rural people towards urban living perhaps? Does that not occur anywhere else in Canada? I thought it did.
Regardless, my intentions are not to dispute your assertions, nor your experience with "older people", just adding my

. Because: internet forum.