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Originally Posted by Acajack
I have also noticed among Canadian friends and acquaintances who moved to the U.S. that when they had kids is when they started talking more and more about "Americans" as being an "us" that included them. Before that they were simply Canadians living (long-term) in the U.S., and "Americans" was a group they weren't a part of.
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I guess it's partly because if you have kids (presumably born or raised there), it would be odd to talk about your kids as part as the "them" in a way you aren't. I don't know how awkward it is to say "I'm Canadian, but my kids are American" or "my mom/dad are Canadians, but I'm American". I know you mentioned Canada is among the most user-friendly countries to become "one of us" but these examples show the US isn't too dissimilar or far behind for all the rhetoric otherwise.
But then again, you get this all the time with kids of immigrants in other contexts (e.g. a Mexican-American referring to their first-gen. immigrant but already-naturalized dad as still "Mexican" but they as American, or Chinese immigrants who call their kids Canadian but are hesitant to use the label "Canadian" for themselves because they themselves don't perceive themselves as assimilated as their kids, citizenship or not).
Though a counterpoint would be all those videos when an adult immigrant to Canada (there are quite a few posted online) who despite often audibly having a foreign accent, responds to a xenophobic taunt or rant by insisting that they're Canadian too.
That's curiously one thing I've seen less of stateside. I'm struck that immigrants to (Anglo) Canada will defend their new found sense of Canadian-ness even if someone can hear that for instance, they have a slight Chinese or Arabic accent, while Americans who defend their American-ness tend to be those with an American accent. Maybe it's similar too with even Francophones as you mentioned Haitians identifying quickly with Quebecois upon immigrating. American citizens who naturalized but still show signs of a foreign accent may defend their honour in other ways against racist/xenophobic attacks (e.g. yelling back against their harasser for these racial slights) but don't take up the mantle of "American-ness" in a "Canadian is a Canadian" Trudeau-esque way as much. After all the "I'm born here! I'm just as American as you" is a clincher for arguments about belonging stateside due to sharper views about what it means to be American, but that means naturalized Americans seem to shy away from claiming Americanness if they weren't naturally born citizens the way naturalized Canadians don't seem to put focus on (we, for instance don't have the equivalency of their rule for presidency to born citizens only, and thus "birtherism" doesn't play into things as much, not to say Canadians don't still see the natural-born as more "Canadian" just less so of a difference than other countries maybe?).