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Originally Posted by theman23
I think Black Star brought this upon himself.
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My complaint has more to do with the quality of discussion than Black Star. The skin colour and country of origin of his wife are not interesting or relevant.
SSP is at its best when people are sharing photos, quality information or articles, or interesting, honest, informed opinions (always a crapshoot). It's at its worst at times like this. Sort of creepy, and uninteresting regardless of the outcome.
The phenomenon of focusing on subjective experience and feelings goes beyond SSP and afflicts many debates of issues like racism or follow-on questions like whether we should reduce police funding. I think it is socially toxic to argue that people can't find common ground or articulate experiences outside of their identity groups, and it's impossible to base good public policy on feelings because there is no consistency. It's not realistic to aim for zero offensiveness or universal permanent feelings of safety for everybody.