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Originally Posted by feepa
Maybe you read too much into a post that isn't there. Text is pretty hard to get rage from unless you have some preconceived notion that i'm raging.
Perhaps my posts could have more time spent on them to eloquently express myself better, but I really don't have time, nor do I have an energy to be raging at people.
Yes, many posts here and that other place are simply too easy not to ridicule, but I'm calm and collected, and mostly just posting while waiting for a process to finish. I'm not paid to spread my opinions here and there, unlike some.
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Most people, including myself, need to be better at eliminating the us vs. them attitude. Someone's choice, opposite your own, to live downtown, or in the suburbs shouldn't elicit ridicule. This isn't the Borg, where we all conform to a single way of thinking and evolution. With that said, I hope we can continue to raise concerns, and question the accuracy of statements without incurring the wrath of those who take offence.
Using 'Shofear' as an example, he posted with the purpose of sharing something he learned the hard way. Unfortunately he also added "before you grow up and move into a house."
That took solid advice about how kids can screw up the ability to get reno projects done in a timely manner into a post about how anyone who chooses to live in an apartment or condo hasn't grown up yet. I think that triggered a rather heated exchange where the 'us vs. them' came out in force.
I have no doubt that you could pick through posts I have made and pulled out attacks. Again, I'm going to continue trying to post in as respectful a manner possible, and hopefully I succeed more often than I fail.
Cheers to all.