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Originally Posted by movingtohamilton
Fair point. But on more than one occasion you get pretty prickly when people disagree with you. Recently you also made a condescending comment about not wanting to educate people here:
" I will continue to share updates and answer questions, but I can't give out real estate development courses on a message board."
So take your own advice. Cool?
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Hey, you just made my point!
I wasn't targeting you or the other user in that message... You seem to be taking everything very personally. I was making a point about wanting to read actual opinions that aren't rooted in hate or coming from a volatile place. This board is a lot more productive when conversations stay on topic and if you disagree with someones
opinion, you shouldn't lash out on the poster. It makes no sense whatsoever. If the poster is rude about something directed at you, I can understand taking exception with that. Otherwise, why not just respond with your counter argument in a manner that's not rude? Most people seem to be doing that just fine.
In the example you pointed out...I had posters writing that a project I work on is, "not happening" or "dead". Those are minor examples... I had to make my point by explaining why the said project hasn't been released yet and also had to explain the real estate market in some ways. What I wrote isn't condescending or rude in the slightest. I'm not on this board to teach real estate development or real estate market courses. Nothing wrong with what I said, it's the truth...
You made my point by responding to my post in a very negative manner, trying to get a reaction out of me in order to go back and forth... It's pointless. If you want to debate or fight with someone, join a debate club or a boxing gym. I'm here to talk development in Hamilton without getting into heated arguments with people. I'll be the first to admit that in the past, I had to defend myself against bullying or hate-filled rhetoric on these boards. A lot of that came against someone who was actually on police radar for
actual, in-person actions (not message board actions) against colleagues of mine. In that case, I believe I was free to argue back. It was a serious circumstance and It goes beyond anything that happens on this board presently.
Please don't try to incite a reaction out of me. I'm here to contribute in a positive, nonabrasive and non-aggressive manner. Most posters do the same.