Quote:
Originally Posted by Pinus
Complete rando:
Does anyone in Newfoundland (or Atlantic Canada for that matter) use the term "mate" at all in their daily convo's?
Just curious.
|
No. I'm sure someone somewhere here is using it as slang, but I think I can confidently say it has no historical presence here. It's not like words like "full stop", "rubbish", "harrish", "jingles crimers", etc. Most Newfoundlanders don't use those, and raise an eyebrow when they come up, but they legitimately have survived in pockets here.
Excluding all the universal English language terms that are also used here (buddy, bro, dude, whatever), "mate" would almost certainly be "b'y" or "dear/love". "B'y" is never rude, but it is a little more informal. For example, men/women working a cash register or drive through window would never call me "b'y", but 90% of the time would still use a term of endearment, most likely "dear"/"my buddy" if they're young, or "love" if they're old.
Women are often called "girl", especially by each other. The tone is very friendly, it's not like international pop culture references where a man says, "Listen, woman!" or anything like that at all. The people who use "girl" in this way use it quite a lot. When Mom is on the phone with a girlfriend, she might say it a dozen times in a single conversation. "Yes, girl... Listen, I'm telling ya the course is booked up, girl! There's not a tee time left!" If you're not from here, it can seem like people are pretending to be black women or drag queens. It's that kind of tone.
One that has died out a lot (I think women started taking offense to all but the oldest men using it): referencing a woman as "maid" or "pet". You'll still see it when people are being super Newfies in a conversation (like when Oprah talks ghetto), but otherwise it's not common at all anymore.