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Originally Posted by biguc
If so, why?
Maybe because apprehending kids instead of working with families leaves broken families and kids who grow up not knowing how to have a working family. And the cycle continues.
Aboriginal kids in other provinces, on and off reserves, grow up with similar poverty and social issues as kids here. Can you put a finger on any difference besides apprehension numbers? What I'm saying is that apprehension is not only a poor solution for the problems that kids face, but the cause of those problems. The destruction of families is a wound that's etched into generations, going back to residential schools. Apprehending kids today causes the same harm: children who grow up without parents never learn how to be parents.
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I'm a teacher. My job for the last 2+ years is specifically with at-risk youth, the vast majority have CFS involvement. Most still live with relatives including a parent in situations where there is stability with a parent (
A parent being a key phrase here).
It takes a lot for CFS to apprehend a child. I work with kids who live in what amount to drug houses (selling, open use, parties, encouraging child to use) with family or a parent and CFS won't apprehend. They provide services, but won't apprehend. It takes a lot.
Most of the youth I work with who are in-care have been given up voluntarily, often abandoned in a literal sense. How do you force someone to be a parent if they don't want to be one? CFS can't do much there. They'll work with almost anyone who is parent or close relative who will provide a roof.
It's good to be idealistic and take a real simplistic overview of the situation, but you won't find many people who actually work with affected youth to any depth on the bandwagon you're on. If anything there is probably a need for more kids to be taken into care in Manitoba, but no resources. Bottom line, if it isn't safe, if kids are being exploited and put into a lifestyle at 7-8-9 years of age or younger that basically guarantees that they will have no chance to develop into functional adults, what should be done?
There is a lot of work to be done to repair communities and families, it's happening, but it's also longer term. It's not going to change much for the 12 year old kid living with an addict mother who is now pushing her to sell herself to pay for drugs today.