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Originally Posted by rousseau
This is awesome. You've got the total SignalHllHiker package here.
Unknown St. John's person who turns out to be a world famous leader in something? Check.
Claim that St. John's shares fundamental traits in common with a major city, this time New York? Check.
Preening put-down of Toronto, this time for not offering an "enriching quality of life"? Check.
Does the Toronto angst have legs, I wonder? Because it seems like your years-long rumination on each and every exquisite detail of how dreadful Winnipeg was for you is now finally over. Perhaps even you found it to be over the top after a while?
I can only imagine a conversation with you:
Hi! A visitor to St. John's! So, do you like it here? Yeah? Oh, what's that you say? You like it better than Toronto?
Ho ho ho, hee hee hee...you don't say! What's that, you think people here are friendlier than people in Toronto? Ha ha...tell me more! This is going to make a terrific SSP post!
Oops, did I just say that out loud? Never mind, it was nothing. Anyway, aren't we all just so quaint and charming here? What's that you say? More so than in Toronto?
Hah hah...you make me so happy!
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Fair enough, but...
You see, this is exactly the sort of the thing that I'd never expect from NYC.
He is very well-known - perhaps not outside the theatre community, but he gets top billing everywhere he goes on the mainland as well, from Stratford to the National Arts Centre in Ottawa. And he just got back from a tour of Italy, Austria, Germany, and France.
Of course it makes me happy. Given my views, it's always wonderfully encouraging when someone with no particular interest in doing so believes we have more in common with New England and surrounding states than Central Canada. Especially when the alternative is... this.
It's the same when Giles Coren came and said our accents were Irish and we were so close to Ireland in every way we're practically joined. That's much more flattering than how we're typically viewed and described by Canadians. So it makes me happy. It's validating. And, yes, the fact he was horrified by Toronto's fashion sense and thought it the worst-dressed place he's ever been does make the compliment a little sweeter.
In a city this small, one doesn't often compete directly with the big boys in anything - it's just a given. So when people from the big boys, or who've made it big and live abroad, find things they love more about here, it's lovely. Especially when that's not the norm.
Take this headline from the Huffington Post yesterday. Great way to frame what is actually a story about economic power in Canada shifting to the West. The headline is intended to be shocking or possibly shameful to Torontonians, but get a nod and a wink from us (and, to a lesser extent, the rest of the federation). It's just the way things work.
That's not the way the conversation went, by the way, as you've described - I'm not a caricature. It was just one small part of a long conversation - and I even stood up for Toronto and said it's not really my cup of tea either but it's big and varied enough that I'm sure everyone can find a niche and have a great life. But it's the part that I loved most.
But I do always ask visitors I meet what they think of it here, which restaurants they've been to, and if they've been out clubbing. They never mind, and I know the place well enough to provide any recommendations they may request.
And, as for Winnipeg... it's clear to me now I was genuinely depressed living there, clinically. I really should've sought help. It took months to heal, and once I started feeling emotions again, they were limited to anger and hatefulness. I even had a couple of hissy fits about hating it here, I was still that far gone from myself. Dropped my keys once walking Fort Amherst with jeddy1989 and was ready to pack up and move to Toronto.

I spent those months on SSP. I don't have that baggage anymore now so it just doesn't come up. And it's been long enough now that it's easier to just remember the things I liked.