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Old Posted May 23, 2014, 1:43 PM
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Since when is prostitution bad? It's illegal, but so was alcohol at one point. And all of the crime that happened from that was due to prohibition itself, not the alcohol.
When it's your daughter turning tricks.

I'm all for legalizing it, but there has to be a way to make sure those that are participating are doing so voluntarily.
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Since when is prostitution bad?
I still can tell if I'm conservative or liberal. I'd say most things I take a liberal viewpoint on but for this one, I'm definitely conservative (especially as the father of two almost adult daughters).
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Old Posted May 23, 2014, 2:52 PM
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I'm all for legalizing it, but there has to be a way to make sure those that are participating are doing so voluntarily.
Would the guy issuing business licenses be called a pimp?
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Would the guy issuing business licenses be called a pimp?
Only by his friends.
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I still can tell if I'm conservative or liberal. I'd say most things I take a liberal viewpoint on but for this one, I'm definitely conservative (especially as the father of two almost adult daughters).
Wanting to protect your daughters from the most exploitive aspect of rape culture is about as "liberal" as you can get. Seeing women as objects that you can purchase is pretty damn conservative. Seeing any human as chattel is.

At least that's one way to spin it. Can go either way.
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When it's your daughter turning tricks.

I'm all for legalizing it, but there has to be a way to make sure those that are participating are doing so voluntarily.
Not sure how that's different from any other job.

I don't know that we have any actual data that indicates there is something unique about prostitution that encourages involuntary participation, beyond its illegality. Kids were forced into coal mines in an era of little regulation as well. Are there any countries that have actually seen long-term legalization of prostitution, and do they still have our problems with human trafficking?

Your daughter could be legally turning tricks tomorrow so long as it's on video, btw. As a non-parent I have no idea if that would make me feel any "better" about it, but objectively it seems just as bad.
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Old Posted May 23, 2014, 5:16 PM
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Wanting to protect your daughters from the most exploitive aspect of rape culture is about as "liberal" as you can get. Seeing women as objects that you can purchase is pretty damn conservative. Seeing any human as chattel is.

At least that's one way to spin it. Can go either way.
Yeah it's a weird one. Marrying 14 year old girls (ok, boys in this day and age) could be viewed as Conservative as it was what we did in the past... yet the current Conservative politicians keep wanting to raise the age of consent.

These labels don't really work all that well when applied to the real world.
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Old Posted May 23, 2014, 5:23 PM
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Not sure how that's different from any other job.

I don't know that we have any actual data that indicates there is something unique about prostitution that encourages involuntary participation, beyond its illegality. Kids were forced into coal mines in an era of little regulation as well. Are there any countries that have actually seen long-term legalization of prostitution, and do they still have our problems with human trafficking?

Your daughter could be legally turning tricks tomorrow so long as it's on video, btw. As a non-parent I have no idea if that would make me feel any "better" about it, but objectively it seems just as bad.
Isn't it legal in The Netherlands and Australia? I think both still have problems with human trafficking.

Found this article which mentions to studies that say it has increased, but further down the article says there may be issues with how those studies collected their data.

I think anytime there is easy money to be made off the misery of others, one will find a criminal element doing so.

http://www.dutchrapporteur.nl/current/ne...ion-generate-more-human-trafficking.aspx
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Wanting to protect your daughters from the most exploitive aspect of rape culture is about as "liberal" as you can get. Seeing women as objects that you can purchase is pretty damn conservative. Seeing any human as chattel is.

At least that's one way to spin it. Can go either way.
I wasn't going to respond to this topic, but here goes. An interesting issue with a lot of complexity.

I try not to use "conservative" and "liberal" labels whenever I can, because most people already "know what they are", identifying strongly with one or the other, which inhibits open forum. As Rusty pointed out, you can define modern liberalism as inline with second-wave feminism (as we all should be), and define modern conservatism as a strictly economic perspective on the world that may commoditize all things including human skills, happiness, and suffering. On the other hand, one might view conservatism as a policy free from intervention (and by extension - free from moral authoritarianism), and liberalism as a system tempered for the benefit of the greater good. I think most Canadian Liberals see it the first way, and Conservatives see it the second way. Both are right. Both sides would likely agree that violence and threats to public safety are what is absolutely unacceptable.

A libertarian might say that drugs or prostitution only affect those directly involved, and so should be allowed so long as both parties understand the risks. In my view, this libertarian perspective grossly oversimplifies the nature of these issues. It's naive to assume there is total "freedom" to make healthy decisions in either case. Neither addicts nor prostitutes can "choose" to stop.

A more authoritarian or prescriptive view would be to tell people what is good for them. Obviously the problem with that is that nobody really knows what's good for someone else, and a system like this can open the door for all kinds of abuse. It's exactly this kind of patronizing attitude that led to Alberta's shameful past of eugenics, but also incarcerates people needlessly in the case of prohibition of alcohol, and probably, marijuana.

I think the best attitude towards prostitution and drugs is something like we have now: prohibitive but sympathetic. Punish higher-ups and ring leaders most severely - reprimand street level perps, be open to the idea that they could be victims, and offer rehabilitation/resources to help them achieve autonomy and security. That article in the Herald today about Suburbia's 190 charges actually underscores good policing towards low level perps: occasionally bust them, detain ones with charges of violence, ban them from certain areas where they continually get in trouble, offer them rehabilitation and resources for a second chance somewhere else. How could it be improved? More and more we are open to talking about these issues in schools and government, which in my view is the absolute best course of action. Teach empathy. Enable voice of all human beings. Practice seeing injustice and power inequality. Political parties using these issues to sway voters does not do the issues justice, it only gets politicians more time in the press. That said, codifying the progressive attitudes already prevalent in police forces and courts could help protect the marginalized populations who live in these grey areas.
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Isn't it legal in The Netherlands and Australia? I think both still have problems with human trafficking.
I may be wrong, but I always had the impression that it's "legal" in places like that. Maybe I'm confusing the soft drug trade. Human trafficking is often involved in otherwise legal employment though, at least in other countries.

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Absolutely. I'm not sure if you're implying it, but I'm not sure that I think prostitution automatically brings "misery". But certainly under our current system, yeah.

I guess what I don't get about our attitudes is this: I know, personally, women who were essentially forced into marriage. By cultural standards, by abuse, and for other reasons. They encounter misery and some of the worst things imaginable. There's a lot of this going on, I don't just hang out in women's shelters (bad taste joke). I know of human trafficking that ends in marriage. But is our response as a society to outlaw marriage?

At the end of the day, is it REALLY about "protecting the vulnerable" or is it still more about the ick factor?

I just don't see many people asking questions like this. As some of you allude to here, even the most otherwise "liberal" (and Rusty did a good deconstruction of that) among us still react strongly when it involves "our daughters". What about our sons? Or has that side of the trade dried up?
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Earnest post, Freeweed. Thanks for the food for thought.
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Plenty of women (and men, let's not forget) enjoy the profession of prostitution. What two consenting adults do without harming others the government should have limited ability to make out right illegal.

That said I would think the highest priority issue regarding making prostitution legal is limiting human trafficking. There are no accurate studies on human trafficking, it is one of the most underfunded and understudied industries, I have a very bad feeling it is worse than other of us really expect.

Second highest would be protecting all participants, giving them solid effective outlets to report abuse and exploitation, and hold prostitution businesses to a higher standard of transparency and accountability. This could easily be funded with a prostitution tax.

Also, prostitution, much like stripping, is largely a career choice with an expiry date. Having transition plans in place and training options to transition people to different careers would also be important, again you could probably fund something like this with an additional tax, although people don't really seem to care about career strippers so if legal this is probably something that will be underfunded.
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Seeing women as objects that you can purchase is pretty damn conservative.
In your opinion, how can purchasing the company of an escort (i.e. a call girl not a sex slave) for a period of time be seen as treating a human as an object one can own but something like retaining the services of a lawyer be seen as a legitimate business transaction?
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Plenty of women (and men, let's not forget) enjoy the profession of prostitution.
I actually find that hard to believe.
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Wanting to protect your daughters from the most exploitive aspect of rape culture is about as "liberal" as you can get. Seeing women as objects that you can purchase is pretty damn conservative. Seeing any human as chattel is.

At least that's one way to spin it. Can go either way.
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I actually find that hard to believe.
As it exists today, you're correct. No woman wants the "protection" of a pimp, or to be working late nights in seedy parts of town, or being basically ignored by the justice system and society as a whole. But given safe, controlled prostitution?

Let me just say this: I have known many women over the years who essentially do just that. They gladly hand out sex in exchange for free drinks, maybe a meal, some gifts, a fun night on the town. Many people would view this as "casual dating", but in their minds they are 100% prostituting. Of course they can't actually outright SAY that to a guy, because then it becomes illegal, but that's what they're doing in their own opinion. And they are extremely comfortable doing it. As several have put it to me: "he sticks it in for a few minutes and I get the equivalent of a hard day's work, what's not to like?". Hell, with a lot of young women, this is basically what casual dating is all about. They determine the level of "access" to their bodies based on exactly how much money a dude spends on them. (It's surprising what women will fess up to when they view you as "one of the girls", incidentally)

When it's in a situation where the woman feels in control and not at risk, plenty of women enjoy prostitution.

Disclaimer - I am in no way implying that all, most, or even many women would feel this way, nor that any should. I'm just stating that some do, and I don't understand why it's up to me to stop them. It's no different than stripping or a porn career - perhaps distasteful, perhaps not something I'd indulge in, but I can't logically deny it to them. Beyond "ick, how can anyone possibly enjoy that".
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I actually find that hard to believe.
Go do a survey of junior associates at a law firm and ask them how many of them enjoy their job.

Your average prostitute has options, and chooses to do what they do for money.

I used to live on Richards St in Vancouver, I've had a few conversations with a couple of the prostitutes that were working on the street in that area. General job satisfaction in that field might surprise you. Obviously I have no data to show, but if your assumption is that all prostitutes are exploited used and abused, you are dead wrong.
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but if your assumption is that all prostitutes are exploited used and abused, you are dead wrong.
My assumption isn't that all are exploited, abused, etc. My assumption is that plenty DON'T enjoy it. I don't have any data to back that up either.

If either of my daughters ended up in that profession, I'd consider myself a failure as a parent.
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My assumption isn't that all are exploited, abused, etc. My assumption is that plenty DON'T enjoy it. I don't have any data to back that up either.

If either of my daughters ended up in that profession, I'd consider myself a failure as a parent.
That's just your own moral code projected onto your daughter. By a similar token, if my kid was spending 100 hours a week slaving away as a junior associate at a law firm, I would also consider that I have failed as a parent. To me, that is no way to live. But hey, if that's what they choose to do with their lives so be it.

"Enjoying your job" is a highly relative concept.
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That's just your own moral code projected onto your daughter. By a similar token, if my kid was spending 100 hours a week slaving away as a junior associate at a law firm, I would also consider that I have failed as a parent. To me, that is no way to live. But hey, if that's what they choose to do with their lives so be it.

"Enjoying your job" is a highly relative concept.
Law isn't really a profession of last resort. I don't really see a meaningfull comparison here.
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