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Originally Posted by The Dirt
I think there is a tendency for the poor to distance themselves from the very poor via spending habits and status symbols. They don't want to be perceived as poor or unsuccessful and lumped in with "those people". My wife sees a lot of Medicaid patients, and the majority of them fit this stereotype:
- obese
- drive a BMW or some other luxury brand
- mom has a Burberry handbag
- mom wears expensive-looking jewelry and large diamonds that are otherwise poor quality
- kids wear Air Jordans and expensive clothes
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When people are away from their miserable apartment, or when when people are away from a house they quit paying mortgage payments on, I suspect the urge is not to let the rest of the world know their true circumstances.
Always been that way, I suppose.
I suspect- referencing Cirrus's comments- that people who work very hard physically or mentally (not stimulating but grinding...)- particularly in highly repetitious jobs (the lower paying jobs basically) have almost no desire to bike to work. Maybe, at least for some, driving the car provides respite from their jobs and represents the last privilege in their lives, compared to those one notch below them economically.
I see it every day on I-25 when I commute by car- not just people living beyond their means, but more 'why the H*ll not, I am a nobody...so let's pretend. Fellow driver, you'll never know me, so you DON'T know how poor I am and you never will.'
As the grip of our Nation's increasing poverty continues to tighten, I am sure that we will see much more of this vicarious living through vehicles and clothing.
"Life is short so I am going to enjoy life on Friday night (stay home and watch — on TV on Saturday and Sunday and go back- if I am lucky- to that low paying job on Monday I hate so much.)"