Viewfinder (electronic or optical) generally means camera is not going to be pocketable (though it would be much more compact than SLR). Add in RAW, full manual controls, good image quality, speed, I think you'd have to be prepared to spend $600 at least.
I don't think you should be too concerned about megapixels on cameras like these. The fact that the new high-end compact cameras have less megapixels than the cheaper, low-end cameras should tell you something.
Summary of the possible choices:
The
Canon G12 ($580): much more compact than SLR (and probably slightly smaller than my Olympus C7070, based on my experience with the G10), but not enough to be "pocketable". It has a basic (and small and inaccurate) optical viewfinder.
The
Olympus XZ-1 ($550): truly pocketable and compatible with the best EVF ($270) out there. The EVF is attachable and fits on the hot shoe, meaning you can't use it the same time as an external flash, but I guess its portable that way. Note that the XZ-1 has a bright F1.8-2.5 lens.
The
Panasonic LX5 ($500): pocketable, but its external EVF is low quality, and lens is F2.0-3.3, which is very bright, but still pales in comparison to that of the XZ-1. It has the widest angle though (24mm instead of 28mm) and has a multi-aspect ratio sensor.
These are all 10 megapixel cameras. I like the G12 the most out of all these, but only because I don't need it to fit in my pocket and I like to have a lot of buttons and dials. I just like a camera to be compact and fit into a small pouch or bag. If you really need pocketability (or even if you don't), I think the XZ-1 could be the best because of the ultra-bright lens.