
yeah, North American cities are not the best examples, building European, Oceanic and Asian style freeway networks are the way to go.
That being said, Montreal, Canada's prime example of vibrant downtown life, cycling, transit, etc... has a very large, well connected freeway network.
I have always found that simply blaming freeways for a city's problems or solutions is a lazy game. They are only one cog in the urbanization wheel. And if built properly, and if the other cogs are also handled properly (zoning, transit, cycling networks, etc...) then freeway networks can be beneficial to a city. Hence North American freeways in most cities may seem evil because of the poor zoning regulations, community atmosphere, crime prevention tactics, transit / cycling systems also found in those particular cities.
Not everything s the freeways fault

And I think most of Metro-Vancouver is doing a good job integrating freeways into the urban fabric. I agree Surrey is to far towards the sprawl method, and has bad zoning, but I also feel Vancouver proper is to far towards the ideological side of the argument.