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Originally Posted by johnjimbc
I think a lot of life is accepting differences, even celebrating them, but also recognizing the need to seek and develop common connections among people. I've noted many times in life that groups can separate themselves to the point that their face begins to seem more like a wall. That's true of everything from religions to book clubs .
Personally, I think the idea of a new gay, lesbian, and transsexual resource center / community center is great. But even I wonder a bit at the idea of a "big Q centre." I know Queer is a self-identified description . . . and it's certainly easier than the alphabet soup of "GLBT..." that is in current favour, but the term can also be a psychological barrier. I somehow just can't imagine a confused youth or well-meaning parent feeling comfortable going to the Qmunity Centre for information or a consultation unless they've already taken most of the journey already. And though I suspect heterosexual individuals and couples will be welcome, the big sign on the window will probably send a mixed signal every time they approach it.
Please don't take this the wrong way . . . I'm really not wanting to be controversial or launch a huge debate. But I read the past several comments with interest so thought I would add my thoughts. I am really glad they are putting in the new centre. I look forward to checking it out. With the world the way it still is for the queer community around the world (reading some of the horrors out of Africa just this morning), I'm actually proud of it . . . proud of Vancouver and Canada for being a nation that can celebrate diversity in such an open manner. But I do recognize that, as presented, it could seem a barrier in some ways instead of opening new avenues to the broader community.
I might be wrong, but I read dleung's comment as being a statement that it will be a wonderful day when we can just open a human support centre without feeling the need to define what kind of human to which it will be offering support. The debate, if there is one, is whether that is necessary and, if so, when should it happen.
Good day to all.
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That's exactly what I mean. It isn't so much whether these clinical/counselling/social services are needed, but rather why aren't they available in "regular" support centres for ALL youth and adults. My frustration with the effects of segregation is that people are less interesting (and more prone to going off the deep end) when so much of their identity is based on some struggle. Probably shouldn't have compared it to breast cancer, but I keep hearing that damned commercial for Susan G Komen's 3-day pinkfest, and all those angry women who are out to "conquer" it...
I realize in hindsight my comments would almost have certainly set off a shitstorm if the wrong people happen to reply first, so I'm glad it turned out to be a good discussion, except for the one or two ppl who tried to pull the homophobia card!
Anyway the building is still too ugly for me to take the proposal seriously. I'm in the "denial" stage.