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Originally Posted by WASDEN
Ouch Logic! Chill buddy I'm not tryin to pick a fight with all of suburbia  . But could I challenge you to put your money where your mouth is and come raise some kiddies downtown? That is if its no big deal like you suggest. At least I'm being honest when I say I'm not even gonna try and raise mine in West Jordan.
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I'm not mad or anything, as I said, it's your opinion and lifestyle preference. I was merley pointing out how your line of thinking is the same as the "family friendly" suburban mentality - just in the other direction, but just as narrow in preference scope. Seeing as I have lived in down town (about 2 miles east in the H.Y. area) and in places like East L.A., I would have no probelm raising kids down town as far as culture goes. I will only be having a couple kids, so a more urban setting would not be that difficult for me when I have kids. People with larger families, however, have more important concerns than just risking "contamination" of their kids behaviors. Seeing as you can buy a house twice the size for half as much on the west side of the valley than the east side or down town, larger families are economicaly drawn to these areas.
As for myself, I have a number of places in which I would consider raising my kids. I hate to say it on here, but it's probably not going to be in Utah. I will most likely go back to San Francisco, which is much larger and more urban than SLC, and I would have no problem raising kids there. There are many nice neighborhoods in the S.F. area - Haight-Ashbury, the Marina district, the Richmond, the Twin Peaks area - all within miles from down town. There are also many suburban areas in the greater Bay Area that would be nice as well - Hilsburough, Walnut Creek, Dublin/Pleasenton, Palo Alto, San Meteo, etc.
My options are quite open, that way I am not constrained by personal convictions to only a few select areas. I am generally more conservative in lifestyle, so living in the Haight-Ashbury district would be quite out of my comfort zone, yet I find these differences as the reason why I would love to live in such a place - for the culture and diversity. With the Castro just a few blocks away, there will be plenty of folks within the GLBT community that I will have the privelege to associate with, as will my kids.
I guess West Jordan is to me as down town SLC is to you - a comfort zone where I am surrounded by people with lifestyles similar to my own. The only problem is that I don't like to be surrounded by carbon-copies of myself. I like to get a different persepctive by living with people who subscribe to lifestyles different from my own. West Jordan and South Jordan are nice places, and I enjoy living in them, but it's the fact that I fit in that makes me want to leave for areas that give me diversity from my lifestyle preference. And, if you recall, I do not dislike SLC proper at all. I dislike snooty attidudes held be people in SLC about the suburbs, but I love the city. I would have no problem living there. I have before, and would again.