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Originally Posted by lio45
This forum would be a more civil place if Chad followed that advice and never argued (i.e. always conceded points) with me, MolsonExport and rousseau ever again 
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But seriously, that's what it comes down to isn't it? chad seems to feel that if someone says something he considers to be incorrect or uncharitable, he is
obligated to correct them and, if they push back, to continue correcting them (arguing) with ever increasing forcefulness, more or less indefinitely. But that isn't an obligation; that is a choice.
Personally, while I've participated in countless arguments there have been hundreds of times over the years when people have said things that I disagreed with and I **made the choice** not to reply or make follow-up replies after a point because I either didn't have time or I didn't think it was a good/enjoyable use of my time. I realised that someone saying something incorrect online did not obligate me to respond or to respond in any particular way. I also realized that if I chose to take part in an argument - regardless of how it started - both I and the other participant(s) are equally responsible for it. I'm not trying to attack chad as i see nothing wrong with getting into spicy debates. It's just a matter of taking responsibility. Blaming someone else for "starting it' is completely relinquishing one's own agency.