Too bad he got banned to reply a proper response.
No matter how hard many of us try to "fix" our problems, there are those who decide they want to make an easy way out of problems, rather than choose to the hard, challenging path to succeed later in life.
There are so many oppurtunities that these people are offered. The best we can do is offer them suggestions, recommendations, and advice on how they want their future to be achieved. However, it's the decision whether they're up for the challenge or not.
As the saying goes: No pain, no gain!