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Originally Posted by YOWetal
Vice versa in fact probably but I am talking about culture in the very broad sense. Seattle kids getting $8 Boba teas, Venmoing each other the cost while in an poly relationship with a non binary third in their thrupple head to work ruling the world as FANG have so little in common with the mega church attending (white or black) Alabama person paying cash for everything and fishing crawfish.
Other than cultural touchstones I have no problem working or socializing with urban Quebecers.
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This is only made possible by the fact that you (perhaps) speak passable French or they (more likely) speak passable English.
In Canada (especially the ROC, where I was BTW raised so I got that too) we tend to downplay the importance of language making people really different, because it's seen as playing into the hands of Quebec separatists.
I.e. Quebec really isn't that different. They just use a different code to communicate. You know, like Beta vs VHS, but you're both still watching the same kung fu movie.
I also think that if you talk to people in, say, the US, they're more familiar with stuff from other regions of the country even if they don't partake in it or even look down on it.
Someone from Idaho might not eat grits but they'll know what they are.
When I moved to Quebec I also noticed that about people who'd lived in Quebec their entire lives. Even if it wasn't their thing, they were used to and even "rolled with" stuff that was a bit off-putting to me.
Like pictures of nude women advertising strip clubs and escorts on the counter of the bowling alley where you're dropping off your 8 year old for a friends' birthday party.
Or Quebec lifestyle magazines with illustrations of blowjobs in the waiting room of your pediatrician's office.
(Both true stories from my acclimatization to Quebec.)