Please note that I am not necessarily taking your side in this dispute. I am studiously neutral on this particular issue. My comments were intended in a general sense for the information of all. This is a civilized forum and we all want decorum to prevail.
As Myles pointed out, tone can be lost on a text driven medium like an internet forum, and offence can be taken where none was really intended. My hands aren't lily white on this issue either, and I have innocently made comments in the past that other took offence to.
As a rule, think twice and read your post twice before clicking the "submit" button. Make sure that what you are saying is really what you want transmitted to the world.........