Real estate is indeed a huge factor which is having spillover effects into other aspects of life in Toronto and Vancouver. Even as food, consumer goods, cars, vacations, etc all drop in price relative to incomes, real estate costs have increased far quicker in those markets. This also has an outsized impact on the lowest income tiers.
If you do not live in Toronto or Vancouver however, quality of life is better in almost every metric. Lower poverty rates, higher car ownership rates, more annual vacations, more disposable income, more square footage per resident, etc. most of these are true in toronto and Vancouver too (yes, including lower poverty rates), but for real estate related issues.
With regards to food banks, I think the stigma around them has shifted a lot too - you have to careful with comparing in that way. In 1981 a lot more people probably just skipped meals as there was an odd stigma and shame about using a food bank. Or used alternate sources as others have mentioned.
To say quality of life is worse than the 1960’s is a joke. People back then lived basic lives in a small home with little disposable income. Living a similar lifestyle to the 1960’s today would still be very achievable on a single income (again considering real estate issues in the two big Anglo cities) - just go buy a $15,000 car, the smallest tv you can find with antennae service, drop all phone plans, eat lots of cheap, simple foods, take day trips to the beach for your vacation, and raise 5 kids in a 900sf house which is fitted with the most basic finishes. That was the median 1960’s lifestyle, and that is why it was possible on a single income.
Something like this with 4-5 kids in it and an extremely basic car and not much else was typically the expectation back then:
Check out this listing
https://realtor.ca/real-estate/25573...alsharelisting
The median family today most certainly had a far higher quality of life than that, typically with each kid having their own bedroom, multiple much nicer vehicles, annual vacations, huge disposable incomes, etc.