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Originally Posted by Ramako
You may have been finished with it. I wasn't.
But you also stated that his comments were not surprising because you've heard many Torontonians say similar things. How on earth is that not implying that Torontonians are ignorant? You can try to backtrack and qualify all you want, but your feelings are quite clear, and it's laughable that you can somehow act shocked that the Torontonians in the room took offense to your statements.
So what if I highlighted your words? I also quoted whole paragraphs of yours so that people could easily see the context in which you spoke.
It's called an analogy. People use them when making points in arguments.
I may be a moderator, but I'm also a poster and a Torontonian. I'm free to post my opinions, engage in arguments and be offended when people imply that ignorance is characteristic of people from my city.
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1. Why take offence to the word ignorant? Ignorance is simply not knowing something. So when I say that many people in Toronto that I have talked to from my own experiences -while stating over and over again that I am not referring to everyone from Toronto- don't care about Calgary, you could call them ignorant. Why is that insulting.
I have always maintained that this is from my own experience. So, if you said to me you are not shocked by something that a Winnipegger has said because you have heard many Winnipeggers say it before I should be insulted? No. From your experience Winnipeggers see things in a certain light.
Similarly I have been saying over and over that I am not talking about all Torontonians, but that doesn't make me any less surprised when I hear something from someone from Toronto, because I have heard many say the same thing before.
Obviously my feelings aren't clear, because you aren't reading into them properly at all. You are assuming many things, and it is really becoming childish. I am simply trying to explain things, and yet you continue to talk to me in a overly demeaning tone.
When you highlight certain words people fixate on them and that takes it out of context, especially considering the majority of people are just scanning our posts. So yes highlighting certain words completely takes them out of context.
An analogy is comparing two similar things. In no way was your comparison an Analogy. Comparing Kingston to Toronto to contrast Calgary to any of the top 3 cities is like first comparing a Whale Shark to a Whale followed by comparing the whale to a minnow.
You are free to post your opinions but there is no reason for the harsh language and the increasingly aggressive and degrading demeanour.