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It may seem like it's centuries away for the younger dads on here, but lately I've been thinking about something that's really come back almost all of a sudden in my life: TIME.

Time for yourself.

Time to do the stuff you never seemed to get to.

Time to spend just with your spouse (if you have one).

Time to reconnect with old friends.

Time to devote to quality time with aging parents while you still can.

It's coming sooner than you think, guys!
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It may seem like it's centuries away for the younger dads on here, but lately I've been thinking about something that's really come back almost all of a sudden in my life: TIME.
Young adulthood: Time and health, but no money.
Middle age: Money and health, but no time.
Elderly: Time and money, but no health.

I'm learning you have to use the two that you have at that moment to your advantage, sometimes to compensate for the one you're missing. It'll be hard to buy health, though.
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Old Posted Jul 25, 2024, 2:32 PM
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Young adulthood: Time and health, but no money.
Middle age: Money and health, but no time.
Elderly: Time and money, but no health.

I'm learning you have to use the two that you have at that moment to your advantage, sometimes to compensate for the one you're missing. It'll be hard to buy health, though.
Most people are fortunate enough for a sweet spot to exist from sometime in their 50s until they are about 70 (maybe 75 if they're lucky) and where health isn't too much of an issue.

The trick is to take advantage of it ASAP as it can expire at any time especially when you're older.

Though almost no one in my circle of friends is retired yet, I've been spending a lot of time talking to people who are already retired recently. It's very enlightening.
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Most people are fortunate enough for a sweet spot to exist from sometime in their 50s until they are about 70 (maybe 75 if they're lucky) and where health isn't too much of an issue.

The trick is to take advantage of it ASAP as it can expire at any time especially when you're older.

Though almost no one in my circle of friends is retired yet, I've been spending a lot of time talking to people who are already retired recently. It's very enlightening.
Should be able to get to 80 healthy these days.

What are the recently retired saying? It seems sad when people realize working isn't as bad as they thought it was.
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Should be able to get to 80 healthy these days.

What are the recently retired saying? It seems sad when people realize working isn't as bad as they thought it was.
I literally know ZERO retired people who are still nostalgic for their old jobs.

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I literally know ZERO retired people who are still nostalgic for their old jobs. Swear to God.
In a couple of years I should stagger across the line. I still plan to work, but less, and likely in a completely different field with more tangible feel-good by the end of each day. I'll let you know if I long for the pressure-cooker. (I suspect I won't)
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Most people are fortunate enough for a sweet spot to exist from sometime in their 50s until they are about 70 (maybe 75 if they're lucky) and where health isn't too much of an issue.
Still working, and plan to continue until I'm 69.

I guess that gives me one good year to do my travelling........
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Old Posted Jul 25, 2024, 4:29 PM
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I literally know ZERO retired people who are still nostalgic for their old jobs.

Swear to God.
Depends on what people do.

A lot of actors never retire. Same with small business owners. Professionals often have extended work careers (especially physicians). Ditto for farmers and fishers. Basically, most jobs where people have agency and some control over their daily lives. Jobs involving problem solving and critical thinking.

These people find their jobs intellectually challenging and rewarding. It becomes a part of who they are. Their life is their job. You can't separate them.

Mind you, most people involved in these sort of occupations also are self employed, and do not have pensions and benefits. This also factors into any decision on your ability to retire.

I can understand why a federal civil service clerk in a dead end job is counting the days to retirement. I mean, what is there to look forward to. But, if your job is interesting, entertaining and challenging; if you don't know what you will be encountering on a daily basis; and if you job is rewarding and you know you are performing a valuable service, then why would you want to retire???
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Old Posted Jul 25, 2024, 4:40 PM
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I'm still in my 30s but I eventually plan to transition to rental income for my retirement fund. Storage units, commercial and higher-end residential. With some consulting/coaching on the side as well.
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Depends on what people do.

A lot of actors never retire. Same with small business owners. Professionals often have extended work careers (especially physicians). Ditto for farmers and fishers. Basically, most jobs where people have agency and some control over their daily lives. Jobs involving problem solving and critical thinking.

These people find their jobs intellectually challenging and rewarding. It becomes a part of who they are. Their life is their job. You can't separate them.

Mind you, most people involved in these sort of occupations also are self employed, and do not have pensions and benefits. This also factors into any decision on your ability to retire.

I can understand why a federal civil service clerk in a dead end job is counting the days to retirement. I mean, what is there to look forward to. But, if your job is interesting, entertaining and challenging; if you don't know what you will be encountering on a daily basis; and if you job is rewarding and you know you are performing a valuable service, then why would you want to retire???
Yes and living in Ottawa I know a ton of civil servants who meet your latter criteria. I think mid thirities there is a lot of thoughts of FIRE or retiring early and retiring at 40 honestly makes more sense to me than 55. It feels like getting out in time for a second life or working till 70 both make sense. If you are a physician it's kind of crazy to retire after only working 15 years of working but I know a few talking like that and they like their jobs. I'd argue that's a result of being over-paid. Though in the end once they settle in to a more expensive lifestyle I am sure thoughts of quiting with only $3 million in the corp will go away. Parenting also gives you motivation to build that generational wealth or at least save enough to let them graduate debt free and get in the housing market which is basically the kind of $ we used to call generational wealth.
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Old Posted Jul 25, 2024, 5:24 PM
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It may seem like it's centuries away for the younger dads on here, but lately I've been thinking about something that's really come back almost all of a sudden in my life: TIME.

Time for yourself.

Time to do the stuff you never seemed to get to.

Time to spend just with your spouse (if you have one).

Time to reconnect with old friends.

Time to devote to quality time with aging parents while you still can.

It's coming sooner than you think, guys!
I can't even find time to take a shit. There is at least more time at night now that the boys are sleeping in the same room together. Having at least one room in the house as a sanctuary is nice. I really can't imagine the day where I have time to go out with friends. I can't even maintain current ones.
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If you are a physician it's kind of crazy to retire after only working 15 years of working but I know a few talking like that and they like their jobs. I'd argue that's a result of being over-paid. Though in the end once they settle in to a more expensive lifestyle I am sure thoughts of quiting with only $3 million in the corp will go away.
You don't seem to miss a chance to continue with your treatise that physicians are overpaid.

I know of only a few physicians who have quit the profession in their 40s.

By and large, most physicians are just starting to crawl out of (professional) debt by that point. 11-15 years of university (and lost years of income), with $200-250k of university debt, as well as another $100k or so to start up your practice will do that to you.

The physicians that I know that quit early are overwhelmingly female, family physicians, and completely disillusioned with their life choice. Medicine (at least family practice) is not what they expected it would be. Family medicine is tedious, confined to private offices, deals primarily with difficult to manage chronic diseases, and the amount of paperwork dumped on family physicians is deadly (sick notes, mandatory physical examinations for certain occupations, letters to insurance companies, patient charting, referral letters to specialists etc.). It just isn't what they signed up for. Burnout is also a real problem which cannot be overstated. Not many jobs require a workweek of 40-60 hours AND on call responsibilities on top of that.

FPs in their 40s, if they don't quit outright, will choose alternate careers as hospitalists, or salaried positions such as public health officers with the government.

The physicians that stick it out until their late 60s or 70s tend to be hospital based physicians in specialties that are technically or procedurally oriented, and exist at the cutting edge of medicine. These specialists don't keep working because they are inordinately greedy. It's because it is interesting and rewarding work, and you KNOW you are making a real difference in your patient's lives.

A 72 year old neurosurgeon doesn't need more money. He just can't imagine giving up what he does.

You make everything seem so mercenary, and governed by the almighty buck. It isn't really. Only a minority of physicians are unusually concerned about their billings. Most of us just want to make sure that when we do retire, that we will be able to do so comfortably, without a huge decrease in our standard of living. This isn't really a big ask for 40 years or so of destroying our health and our relationships by being workaholics.......
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