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Originally Posted by Truenorth00
You can say that. It's hard to believe it though.
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I live here, and you don't. That's the difference. I have no problem mentioning the (annoying) issues with France, as should be obvious by now, but this one is not one. The French by and large are not racist as you could experience it in the USA, or in some Eastern European countries (by far the most racist part of Europe). The French have long been used to immigration, and part of France is Black for more than 3 centuries (West Indies, Réunion), with Black and "colored" politicians in the top of national politics for more than 100 years already.
The French mentality is different. It's not so much your "race", your skin color, or even you religion that matters. What matters to the French is the fact people shouldn't "stick out". This is something I don't really like about France, but here people tend to be quite conservative in how they look at other people. If you dress in a bizarre way. I you have weird hair (like purple-died hair, which I often see in Spain, but which would be badly received in France), if you behave strangely, people won't like it. They look at you from top down ("se faire toiser de haut en bas" is a French expression). That's why people here pay more attention to how they dress than in the rest of Europe.
The French mentality is one of the mistrusting peasant (paysan méfiant), the sort of guy being wary of "strangers" (strangers, any stranger, not foreigners per se). You know these old farmers who looked with suspicion at people coming to their village from somewhere else, and who bit in silver coins with their teeth to make sure the coin was real and had its proper amount of silver.
In today's world, there is still something of it. If you have a good education, speak accent-less French, behave well, have a good job, 99% of French people will treat you as just any other French person, even if you have Maghreban or African origins. On the other hand, if you have a bad banlieue accent, or a Maghreban/African accent, if you wear a veil, or a tradition Muslim male outfit, if you behave weirdly, you smoke weed, you grow your beard the Muslim way, you have low education, bad manners, then yes, many people will be suspicious of you, and will not want to engage with you, hire you, or rent an apartment to you.
There are many perfectly well integrated children of Maghreban immigrants, because they respect the codes. 2 years ago, I was carpooling with a 25 y/o engineer who had Algerian origins (his parents if I remember well). This guy had a first name which was definitely very Arabic (not like the inconspicuous new names chosen by Muslim families), but other than that he looked very European (like many Maghrebans, because the Maghrebans enslaved Southern Europeans for many centuries, so lots of Maghrebans descend from European slaves transported to North Africa), spoke accent-less French, spoke well (not banlieue-French), dressed well (sleek white shirt, etc), had a good job. He would be good son-in-law material even for conservatives French families. In the conversation I asked him specifically whether he ever encountered racism, like people telling him "sorry, I've already found someone to rent the apartment", or night clubs refusing him at the entrance, etc, and he said no, absolutely never. And I think that is not unusual, and you would find it repeated across many people with the same origins.
In the professional world in France, when someone has good education, good manners, good accent, they are perfectly accepted and treated as equal whatever their skin color or name. This is not even an issue.