It's not too bad. I used to work way up in the northern metro, and it would take me about 50 minutes with one line change. I'm sure it'd take longer than that if you're in the Minhang District or the furthest reaches of Pudong, and you have to travel in to central Shanghai.
The one thing these lines do (besides offer rapid transit to areas that have none) is break down connections, and therefore connection times between areas. It's almost to the point to where you can get to where you need to go with only one line change. For instance, almost half of Line 12's current stations are hubs that connect with other lines. Line 13 is like this too.