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Originally Posted by O-tacular
I saw a video the other day that really resonated. It was from a 40 year old dad in Texas recapping his introduction to adulthood.
- Highschool graduation: 9/11
- College graduation: 2008 financial collapse and recession
- Prime earning years: Global pandemic, recession, inflation, housing crisis.
- Future: Out of control Climate Change
Millennials have been fucked. Gen Z has it even worse. As a parent of young kids (like you) I really struggle with the fact that we live in smaller multifamily homes while the grandparents live alone in large SFH's with big backyards that were designed for families but now sit as a piggy bank for retirement. It's completely messed up and backwards. Boomers inherited a better situation from their parents. We are inheriting a far worse one.
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Agreed. I'm fortunate in that my parents get it. They helped me with a down payment on my first house (and selling that got me the down payment for my current one). They really got it when I went to college, working over the summer, and not even putting a dent in my tuition despite living with them, and being very open with them about what I was bringing in and where it was going. Mom wasn't surprised, but sad - but Dad was truly shocked, angry
They've been best kind ever since. And luckily their families (12 siblings each) are the same, not shy about helping out my dozens and dozens of cousins. "Brother Will got Siobhan an apartment in Whistler...", "You want to contribute to a car payment for your cousin Abby in Nova Scotia? Sister Jess is on her own and with two sons in college, she can't do it on her own..." etc.
People who don't have supportive (and large) families, I genuinely don't know how they get ahead. I assume they just don't? I'd still be renting without that shot of help in 2012 or whenever I got that first place. Definitely.
And the worst part is there's not enough recognize that's bad for all of us. Doesn't matter how rich you are when you have to pay for military-grade security for your gated compound. Doesn't matter how successful your business when there's no one left, at least in your country, who can buy whatever you're selling.