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Originally Posted by JHikka
I wouldn't necessarily classify this as giving up - there's always stories of New Yorkers who live their entire lives without ever having a driver's license. Why would they? That doesn't make NY any less of the fantastic city it is. The same can be said for younger people living in larger cities. Ideally the city provides various options for people to live their lives, whether with a car or driver's license or not. If young people can't get that in a city and really want that lifestyle they'll move elsewhere. Half the people I know in Toronto are people from small towns who left for the lifestyle that a larger city affords, myself included.
For Halifax a lot of the growing pains of becoming a growing, larger city is that it needs to become more multi-faceted and inclusive for all types of people. Owning a suburban home in Bedford shouldn't really be the only endgoal, should it? There should be options of many different varieties and outcomes so that a good mix of people can live in the city. That's what makes cities cities. Hoping for a good ending consisting of a large SFH in the 'burbs with two cars and a dog and a white picket fence feels very...1950s. Not only is that not reasonable these days but also not environmentally conscious, but that's another tangent entirely.
I'm assuming what someone is referring to is a disconnect in the older generations pushing that outcome as being the ideal outcome and younger generations arguing that it doesn't have to be like that at all. The issue is that the society they've created is one where homes are more valuable than careers and create more value and wealth in a society where that is paramount. If a basic necessity like housing is too expensive then it will dissuade many from wanting to take part at all. What's the point?
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I thought I covered that off with: "unless that's what they want (which is fine, of course)".
To answer some of your assertions (and then let the thread get back to Cogswell):
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someone wrote that "they don't even have drivers licenses", implied to me that it was a deficiency, not a strong choice based upon a chosen lifestyle. And that deficiency means that they can only choose one way of living. That sounds like giving up. I'm sure this is an unpopular point of view, especially among the crowd that views not having a drivers license as some sort of badge of honour, but I view having a drivers license as a life skill that one should make the effort to do. Even if you never drive a car for the rest of your life, you know how to do it, and have a license to do so if you ever want/need to. Maybe this won't apply in the future, but there are some jobs where driving is part of the job - my comment about limiting employment opportunities applies here as without a license you will exclude yourself from those opportunities. Regardless, I think you zeroed in on the drivers license thing as most ardent urbanists seem to look at it as some kind of evil (which is your right, even if I disagree... proper thing). Sure if you live in NY, you can live your entire life in the city and never need a license - if that's what makes you happy, then great... go for it.
- Living in a SFH in Bedford (or Cole Harbour, or Lantz) doesn't have to be anybody's end goal, but again, I was referring to the idea that if somebody wanted to do that, but feels they can't because they can't get a drivers license and never could afford a SFH in their lifetime, I view this as a failure of our country. No reasonable form of living should be considered out of reach for anybody of any background, which isn't to say that a fry cook should be able to afford a McMansion in the south end, but it is to say that a small SFH should be accessible to any person with average to above average income. What appears to be happening is that housing has become a commodity rather than a functional living space, and the only hope that a young person has of getting into one is either through being a top 10% income earner or receiving a house through an inheritance. To condense it down a little, people should have options, and if the future trajectory is for them to not have options, then we have a problem and that problem should be addressed.
- I get tired of reading of the "disconnect of the older generations". There have been "generation gaps" as long as I can remember, unfortunately, and the younger generations have always looked at it being a problem with the 'older generations', but historically have always failed to look inwards. Basically, I view it as young adults getting tired of being told how to live their lives and pushback occurring. It's normal, it's fine, but often in these forums it's being pushed as some sort of massive failure of older generations. Usually I just smile and think to myself "just wait until you are part of the older generation... you have a lot to look forward to...", which is what i am doing now.
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Originally Posted by JHikka
Halifax doesn't exist in a vacuum. Comparisons can be made on a lot of things, and that's why I always encourage people to travel and visit other cities, no matter how temporarily, to see how people live and work in different settings.
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Which I have done, as well. I'm not sure if that's what you were implying, but yes, I've experienced life in places other than Halifax... and choose to be here because I like it.
Off track, but several years ago I was offered a position in Toronto with higher salary and more opportunities, but having visited Toronto for many business trips, and many trips to visit friends and family who live there, I decided that living in a place that I love was more important than career advancement. I didn't and still don't care much for Toronto, despite all that it has to offer. You didn't like living NS and decided you would rather live in Toronto. Different people, different preferences. Amazing how that works.