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Originally Posted by Steely Dan
well, that, along with being one of the most important biological imperatives of life itself.
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Humans probably don't have a biological imperative to reproduce. A sex drive - up until birth control - was good enough, since sexual intercourse between men and women would usually result in a pregnancy eventually. Then, once a baby arrived, the mother needed to have some level of maternal instinct so she didn't just abandon it. That's all that was needed.
Think of it as analogous to our instinct to breathe. Surprisingly, when we hold our breath our instinctive desire to catch a breath doesn't come from a need for oxygen, but a need to purge our body from carbon dioxide. This is why people can die quickly in caves with low oxygen - your body doesn't register anything is wrong because you're getting all your CO2 out, and then you pass out suddenly and die soon after unless someone aids you. Given being in deep caves wasn't something we did commonly evolutionarily speaking, the kludge regarding CO2 was fine though for 99.9% of cases.
So yeah, I think our desire to actually have kids is culturally mediated, for the most part. That said, given birth control being widespread means those who don't want children no longer have them, there's going to be crazy selection in favor of whatever traits make someone either really want kids, or be really, really bad at family planning.