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Originally Posted by OldDartmouthMark
That was before your buddy came on to be the hero and it went downhill from there.
Anyhow, enough said.
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I haven’t taken any of the other bait that you’ve tossed out for me in the past few days, but I will this time.
Nobody came in “to be the hero” (yet another of your snide and dismissive mischaracterizations of dissenting opinions). I came in to comment on another fight that had already been going for two or three days between YOU TWO and several other people, supporting one of those people’s statement that this very behaviour is likely why participation seems to be down here.
But somehow in your mind I started the whole thing.
That was fully TWO WEEKS AGO - and you’re STILL AT IT! Yet I haven’t been here in TEN DAYS.
It’s completely one-sided. All you, STILL dragging it out and even bringing my name into another sarcastic comment a day or two ago. (But you accuse others of not being able to let things go…sheesh.)
TWO. FULL. WEEKS!
Say it again.
TWO. FULL. WEEKS!
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Originally Posted by egb
Randall Monroe - https://xkcd.com/386/
This place used to be 80% construction news/pictures and 20% trolling, and the past few months its really switched.
Nobody is coming off well in these arguments and if people don't cool this place will die completely.
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Yup, this was basically my message (supporting another very similar message) two weeks ago but you’d think I’d kicked a baby by the reaction it got. (I offered more specifics about behaviours (without names), which was probably my mistake.)
The badgering, the name-calling - and, yes, the ageism, the inability to just let people have their opinions without trying to beat them out of them for hours or days on end here is wild, and I know at least two other former regulars have very much stopped participating because of it.
Even for one mostly lurking, not participating (because of…all this), and just coming to read updates - there is so. much. bickering. to wade through on many threads to get to any substance.