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Originally Posted by JMKeynes
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Huh?
Did you not grow up in an area with Jews and Italians or something? Everything you said here was 100% wrong.
1. Jews intermarry with gentiles at a very high rate.
Close to half of American Jews have a non-Jewish spouse.
2. Tons of Jewish people are pretty much indistinguishable from Western Europeans. Think Natalie Portman, Seth Rogan, Jason Schwartzman, Jessie Eisenberg, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Wynona Ryder, etc.
3. Tons of Italians "look Jewish" For example, look at John Turturro, who has famously worked with the Coen Brothers for decades.
4. The idea that being "blunt/rude" is unique to Jewish culture is also bizarre. For example,
look at this cultural atlas of Italy...
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Direct Communication: Italians are typically direct communicators. They tend to be open about their emotions and speak clearly about their point. They generally expect similar honesty from their conversation partner and hence may fail to read into understatements. Therefore, avoid ambiguity and indirect speech.
Communication Style: Italians are generally quite open, inquisitive and bold. Expect to be asked a lot about your life story and background. You may find that they are eager to give their opinions or advice on your activity. For example, they may point out an error in your organisation of your home and give you a tip on how to correct it. Foreigners can find this judgemental or nosey. However, avoid ignoring them or shutting down their questions and comments. This may lead them to see you as closed off or overly sensitive.
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Growing up in Connecticut - where most of my social network was at least partially Jewish or Italian - bluntness and sarcasm were the norm.