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Originally Posted by Summerville
Perhaps I should be honest and direct.
The issue that I have is Keith's vitriol, which done in the way that Keith chooses does not contribute to the Forum.
Months ago Keith made what seemed to me to be a personal attack against Erica Butler, which I thought was slanderous at the time. I thought of calling Keith out.
Keith continually attacks Sam Austen. I'm sure that Sam has a thick skin by now and he chose to be in the public light.
But I know both of Erica and Sam. I used to work with Sam and Erica is a parent at my kid's school. I don't think that they have shares in a bicycle company. They aren't planning to make a personal profit from the things that they believe in. They have aspirations for this city like most of us.
Kourash Rad has probably contributed more to this city in one minute than many of us have. But heck,...let's attack him as a person to make our point.
I've only been coming to this site for the last 5-10 years. Its really your Forum. You can choose to do nothing.
But if you are going to do anything, cut back on the personal attacks. They have little value for people that are excited about the new development in this city and want a venue to discuss what is happening.
I've lived here my whole life. I love the fact that Halifax is developing in the way that it does. I might be in the 1% but I love tall and well designed buildings and also I love biking to work in this city. I've been biking to work for the last 20 years. And dealing with land is my profession,...and it what my family has done as well.
Cut back on the personal attacks and BS. I know that it will mean that Keith has less to say. But I don't think that many of the people that come to this site want to see a thread where old men gripe about change.
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Thanks for your honest and direct input. Since you quoted my post, obviously something I wrote had a negative effect on you as well, so I will try to do my part and not participate in negative threads like this, even if I agree with them or have thoughts about it that are not positive. I will also do my best to not react to posters when they present a condescending viewpoint or post something negative about something I feel positive about - there's no point in extending the negativity even further.
I will not ignore ageism, though, as I think the continual comments and generalizations about 'boomers' or 'old men' (as in the last line of your post) are not appropriate, just like negative generalizations about 'millennials' are also inappropriate and not welcome. Ageism makes my experience here a negative one.
To be honest, I have tired of the divisiveness that has attacked our society - you read more right vs left, millennial vs boomer, bicycle vs car, etc. etc. than anything else these days... and not enough meeting in the middle. Let's try to get back to meeting in the middle - have discussions instead of arguments - that would make my experience here a little more positive, because like you I have considered leaving many times, and have for periods in the past - but I have too much interest in my city to stay away too long.
Can't speak for others, but I will try my best to keep things on the positive side, and in fact I may just limit my posts to the more historical aspects of Halifax. I really love watching our city being built up with all the amazing new structures filling out our downtown and other areas, but admittedly I don't have the level of enthusiasm for tall buildings that others have - I like them when they are well done, but not so much when they are not (by purely subjective judgement on my part).
Maybe I should just read and not comment, or just find a more productive way to use my time...