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Originally Posted by Steely Dan
This is a tangent thread from the most populous city in the future thread.
Molson's post in that thread got me thinking:
I myself was raised in a detached SFH in an upper middle class burb of chicago. But now I'm raising my family in a chicago 3-flat in a city neighborhood.
Though molson's post was tongue in cheek, it did get me wondering, will my kids look back on their own childhoods as something "less than" because they didn't get the stereotypical american SFH home experience?
Our condo is valued at many hundreds of thousands of dollars, so our kids are by no means growing up poor or deprived, but might they still develop some lingering sense of it not being enough?
What about those of you who grew up in urban multi-family housing? Have you ever looked back on it as "less than"? Has it ever factored into your own housing decisions as an adult? Did it impact where you decided/will decide to raise a family of your own?
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I was raised in the lower of a Buffalo Double with 3 other siblings, and my grandmother and uncle lived in the upper, as did my mother when she was younger. Our neighborhood is probably 60-75% doubles, triples, 4-plexes, or apartments.
Less than? Nope. Half the kids I knew until high school lived the same way, and the other half were in singles not much bigger than one unit of our double. I had to share a small room with my brothers, but so did the kids in single family homes as families were larger then. Maybe a bigger yard would have been nice to have, but that's about it. I went to high school with a mix of city and suburban, but mostly suburban kids, and I really never cared much about how or where they lived, but I did think that where I lived was "cooler" than their neighborhoods.
After I left home I lived in apartments until we could afford a home, but the city I moved to had very few multi-family homes, and the ones that existed were usually much more expensive. So, the idea of living in one again never came up until years later when we decided to move back to Buffalo.
Today I am back in the upper of a Buffalo Double, which we have updated and expanded into the attic, and another family member lives in the lower unit. Some of my in-laws have recently moved here from out-of-state with their two kids and are renting an upper unit nearby. They are in the market to purchase a double or triple, and plan to move their grandma into one of the units. They think that the doubles here are the greatest thing ever, and their kids are very happy to be here.
It may have been different for us if we were renting, or shared the house with strangers. But having a double either filled with family, or available for visiting family, was/is a great way to live.