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Originally Posted by Acajack
Not sure if you're aware but Baby, It's Cold Outside has become a somewhat controversial song in the anglosphere. It's said to be "rapey". C'est-à-dire que la chanson ferait subtilement l'apologie du viol.
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Ah, yeah, that sucks... I understand now.
Over here, weather has nothing much to do with anything of that because it's mild.
So the rule is quite simple:
1. She firmly, strictly says no, which simply means no. You can see it in her attitude, then you don't act as a poor dick, you just don't insist and move on.
2. She says a shy, hesitating no, but you can sense that it might mean yes, so you may insist a little bit in that case, but
very gently, and if situation eventually turns into 1, then you move on.
3. She says nothing, which means yes.
That's quite simple, isn't it? Raping is fairly punished by imprisonment anyway.
I just want to make it clear, so North American women feel safe in France.