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Originally Posted by Jstaleness
It's bad here in NS and me and my wife are also looking to move out of this province and do better elsewhere. Our government and citizens for the most part seem to have the...."Ahhh well, Someone else will do it" attitude.
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Allow me to be disagreeable and simply state that no, it's not bad here--but Nova Scotians have this outrageous grass-is-greener complex and imagine that life will be easier and better if they move away. To where is almost immaterial; the constant assumption is that to live here is to persevere in the face of hard times and hard luck. There's a cultural expectation of moving away for "a better life," even among young, white-collar Haligonians, as if were Cape Breton coal miners in the 30s. It's this enormously self-defeating insistence on our own inability to stack up, and boy has this writer internalized it.
That's all bullshit. Most parts of rural Nova Scotia aren't doing very well, but they're facing similar difficulties as one-note rural economies all over. And Halifax has some of the highest incomes and fastest job growth in the country, in a diversified urban economy. I've lived in Calgary, Edmonton, Toronto, and Vancouver. Finding employment, making friends, finding good housing has all been as easy here as anywhere, and easier than in some.
Whenever anyone writes something like this, the comment threads fill up with expats congratulating each other on leaving. And with people declaring anything they don't like--the most recent provincial budget being the most common right now--as evidence of the province's terrible state and hostility to the young (as if provincial governments in other provinces are especially youth-focused.) The bizarre loathing for the place is actually the only thing that makes me wonder if I should stay--will this internalized self-hate ever go away? Or will this sad-bastard culture of discontent persist? It is hard to feel energized about a place when the culture is so insistently and irrationally depressive.