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Originally Posted by rofina
I very much dislike this too.
There a are a few members that are incapable of separating issues.
Its an all or nothing mentality.
Its even with asinine things; oh this guy likes pick ups. He's clearly a climate science denying Trump voter. That's all he can be, defined by one characteristic that happens to fit into a box of other characteristics. So I must subscribe him/her to all of them.
Its such an asinine and unproductive way to view the world.
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Yup, this is what I was talking about. Not that I expect it to change, but I do get tired of it.
Even people who appear to be highly educated and/or extremely intelligent in this forum seem to fall into the trap of generalizing and pigeonholing people based on very little information. The rudeness that ensues is mostly what is off-putting and causes me to lose respect for these people, despite the ideas that they may be presenting.
However, I have to remember that it is the internet, which only gives us a sliver of who these people really are. I should try to be more understanding in the sense that maybe in 'real life' they have zero social skills, and might be thought of as assholes by their colleagues and/or acquaintances. There's no way to know, really, but I have to try to remind myself to cut them some slack as they may just be ignorant as to how they are presenting themselves online.