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Old Posted Dec 2, 2020, 7:34 PM
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I would agree there's no universal, correct answer to "disclose or discover".

I used to be 100% for "disclose early and fully" then I happened to learn about a couple situations of people I know where that would just not work - typically it's a "flaw" that would send 99%+ of potential partners running away immediately but that can actually be managed decently well, so it's understandable that they can't just start with that.

However, the "disclose" moment should come at some point though. In all cases.

JMO of course.