[We vs us]

Well, not to put too fine a point on it, but you pretty much went right at the soft heart of the issue with hammer and tongs. It's been pretty well established that that part of 4th is 1) important to the LGBTQ community at large and 2) important to the folks who are on this forum. Jumping in to question why that might be, especially if you're not part of that community . . . maybe not the best choice to engender civil discussion. Maybe just accept the obvious, that people feel strongly (legitimately) about it and choose another hill to die on.