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Originally Posted by bilbao58
Actually, I mentioned 700+ feet, though not explicitly as a threshold, in a post that you yourself quoted. But, it doesn’t matter, I already deleted my offending posts and I’m finished with this. I added a wink smilie to my post from earlier today to signify that I meant the post to be taken as humor. Basically admitting that I was being a jerk before.
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Being a jerk and exhibiting hallmark abusive behavior are not the same thing. Other forumers may excuse it, but I am a survivor of abuse and I will not. You’ve got to do more work than just a posting a coy wink face emoji after deleting all the evidence. Maybe start with a genuine apology where you admit your mistake and change the behavior pattern?
This post itself is in line with the abusive pattern, where after the fact the abuser erases evidence and then jests about the infraction without ever showing remorse.