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Originally Posted by zrx299
Which part of that statement is factually incorrect?
You don't have to like it, but it's reality.
Empathy and stating facts are not mutually exclusive.
It's also convenient of you to ignore and cut off the part directly after that where I said I'm in favor of second and third chances.
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As a recovering alcoholic, I understand your good intentions, but this kind of language regarding addiction isn't helpful.
Anyone who has been on a journey of recovery understands that personal responsibility, as I believe you're implying, is one of the keys to enduring sobriety (along with community and service). But many find themselves in addiction through systemic or even abuse-driven dynamics. It's not a life choice; it's a disease and one that is irreversible and compounding. That's why you can start life (as most alcoholic or drug users might) as a managed user, and suddenly find your life being unmanageable some period later.
I do truly appreciate your intentions. But when you call something like an addiction a life choice the implication is "oh well then it should be easy for you to turn off said life choice" and that's simply not the case. Most addicts work HOUR by HOUR in order to fight their addiction and they are the bravest, hardest working people I know, even when they fail.
The point is; these are hard f*cking problems to solve, and they are harder still on the addict.
I'll be honest, I don't read the back-and-forth on this topic cause it makes my stomach turn. So allow me to just add my two cents and dip. I'm always happy to see there are some empathetic warriors here that are fighting the compassionate policy fight. Afraid at the end of the day it all comes down to dollars and cents; fighting addiction takes resources and without more of em, the problem only shifts to under-resourced prisons or another geography.