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Originally Posted by downtownphxguy12
As in life, everything is not absolute. Some people on the street are scum and some are truly deserving people. From my experiences (working and mentoring homeless) i feel it is more of the formal. People can disagree.
Note: I had discussions with a very liberal friend that believe it was societal pressure that caused every issue (drug, alcohol, food addition, homelessness, , crime, etc.). Which is great, you can blame everyone else for ones problems. Try to debate someone with this world view. I on the other hand feel one has to take personal responsibility for their situation in life. There is some truth in both.
I was raised and raised my kids to take personal responsibility for your life. Doesn't mean i can't have empathy and help people out. I do.
I live in the hood, and feel i have good grasp of whats going on. I really try to help people who are down and out (not just giving a homeless person $5 and patting myself on the back for doing so).
As winston Churchill said, to be young and conservative you have no heart, to be old and liberal , you have no brain
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Comment of the Year!
Srsly, nicely stated.
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There is some truth in both.
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Yup
And this one is too funny (and true)
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As winston Churchill said, to be young and conservative you have no heart, to be old and liberal , you have no brain
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I have no idea how much good it has done but Denver has built maybe four new 3-5-story buildings of 'transitional' housing over the last decade which is mostly studio apts IIRC. One of the new buildings has a ground floor health clinic which is waaay cheaper than hospitals, for example. It definitely does help with those who are short timers, maybe lost a job or divorce etc and do respond well to help. It can help with others as well; some who are more likely to get part-time jobs where it's not enough are often assigned living units. Picture the harmless older fellow or easy-going mildly mental chap.
They say that it's typical to become more conservative as you get older. It's true.
The more you tolerate the problem the more you enable it. For many, a lot actually, it's their badge of honor to survive on the streets but their 'courage and stamina' would be better spent choosing a different pathway. Many are plenty capable; they just find the 'challenge' of being homeless more satisfying and hassle-free; no fear of failure needed. If you care for their plight I would guess that more of a tough-love approach has better odds of actually providing real help.
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Originally Posted by PHXFlyer11
Agreed. All you can do is try your best and to put your children in the best position possible. But it doesn’t mean you can guarantee their success. My best friend was raised right and was a good person. He’s now a heroin addict living on the street. Nothing his parents could’ve done.
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My 24 yr old son has lost too many (Pinnacle) HS friends to heroin or car/motorcycle crashes. Too many to count sadly.