I , was in your shoes at one time, years ago. Many, now. I left San Antonio but first commuted all over the place until I finally moved away and then married! The sole regret I have for having made this decision is that any precious time I had left to be with my parents, was gone. Grand kids too.
This decision is a bit analogous to elective surgery I think.
Will I really be better off afterwards? With priorities in order and fully thought through, what is the most important? Agonizing over this decision and postponing the possibly inevitable will only prolong anxiety.
Do the painful thing now so that life will become better afterward?
Or, will it? Really? I do not know your answer, nor can I give what is going to be truly, good advice for you. If I look back in time now though, and after having made a decision similar to yours; Having lived through life's experiences what decision would I make ? What if I could change that decision magically?
By the way I love the Ft. Lauderdale, Miami and the Hollywood areas ( the place is paradise in the lower 48 states). I would say, recommend, Move.
To stay in S.A.will always leave you wondering, for the present. A transplantation will answer all doubts. Maybe. There are so many variables in life.....that at your age staying might work out so well that there was no true reason for leaving. You have your entire life ahead of you, it all will work itself out no matter what your geographical location. I left San Antonio at 28 years of age. Maybe a decision to move will work itself for you in fantastic ways. Who really knows? Go for it, if this is a good possibility. This might just be for the best for you and your future family.
Also, by the Way, Michigan Ave. in Chicago is gorgeous in the summertime.
Wintertime is the coldest I've ever seen.
Unless, if , your immediate family is the number one priority of your life; Then I would recommend, staying. "We all come into this life surrounded by family and leave this world surrounded by family." Those you leave behind will suffer at this possibly, regrettable decision, a loss.
Maybe? This type outcome will stay with you. Always. What is number One?
For me, when I do glance backward, leaving was somewhat regrettably, the best decision to make, OGalex. Yes.
answerQUOTE=theOGalexd;9457127]I figure this is the best thread to post this in, but as a mid 20s guy... looking for some advice from some of ya'll that have been there done that.
I've lived in SA since '07 and while i've seen the city grow and improve a bunch since then, I keep having this nagging feeling that I'm "wasting my prime" being here in sort of a sleepy city. Seeing the same people from high school when I'm out, people getting married super young, pretty subpar dating options, etc.
I have a few online businesses so I can work from anywhere, and sometimes I think about moving to Austin or Fort Lauderdale to be around people that are more my speed.
I do have a lot of connections here now, and moving somewhere completely new and starting over on the ground level is a factor I'm keeping in mind too.
So if you were in my shoes, mid 20s, making pretty good money, would you stay in SA to be near family and bet on it improving and getting in on the ground level per se for future opportunities... or go somewhere else where the action is?
I know it's a random question lol but any insight is appreciated![/QUOTE]